Wednesday, May 21, 2008
Monday, May 19, 2008
You Tube Interview
About three years ago, I did a sales training program with a company called 3 Value Logic, which was how I found my current job. As a successful graduate, they asked me to do an interview for them to help market for new candidates. Check it out...I'm on YouTube!
Saturday, May 10, 2008
Pictures from Patio Project & Buffalo Grass Weekk 1
I've finally mastered Picasa. Here are the photo albums from the patio project and the first week of the Buffalo Grass.
Thursday, May 8, 2008
Bridal Shower
A few weeks ago I was lucky enough to get to host the bridal shower for my dearest friend Jami. And I've finally gotten around to uploading the pictures!
I've known Jami longer than I have known any other person who is not related to me -- I think we may have just hit the 18 year mark (yikes). She and her great Fiance, Alex (who I introduced her to!), are getting married on May 17th.
Monday, May 5, 2008
The Buffalo Grass Is In!!
Yes, we've only been talking about the buffalo grass for about 18 months...and it's finally in! Tonight Erik completed the planting of all 1800 plugs of Prestige Buffalo Grass.
Sunday, May 4, 2008
3rd Grade Bullies
(For those of you who might be reading my blog and are unfamiliar with Landmark, I'm not going to give you any sort of an introduction -- you can click here to attend one online.)
In the week since the course began, the office has been full of drama. Working with Erik is on the verge of falling apart, and it is largely because I've spent so much of my time and energy on beleiving that his boss is a jerk and telling the whole world. There is this individual at my office, who manages Erik but not me, who's management style I disapprove of. I've tried to tell my boss what a jerk the guy is, but I feel like he's just not listening.
This evening I was on a call with the other mentors, and I thought I'd share with them about this upset. I quickly was returned to third grade, when a kid named Brandon used to pick on me (Mom -- I know you are reading...let me know if I got this story wrong). He sat next to me in class and would pull my hair, shove, and punch me. Finally, my mom went to the teacher and complained. The way I remember the situation, the teacher said that the kid was flirting with me and didn't do much besides move my desk. Basically, she didn't do anything and I was left feeling like a tattle tale.
I realize I've been acting like this guy at work is Brandon the Bully. I feel like he's picking on everyone and I shouldn't have to put up with it, and I've been being a tattle tale about it. And I wonder why I've been ineffective...why should I expect my VP of Sales to listen to a 3rd grader complain about a bully? He probably thought he was hiring an adult when he gave me my job.
So the skill you learn in the Wisdom Course is how to recognize when you are being a 3rd grader, and start being an adult. I'm going to try it on this week...